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  • When Leadership Fails You

    Let’s talk about it. Because at some point in your professional life, leadership will fail you. Not might. Will. And when it happens, it hits differently — especially when you care about your work. Especially when you’ve given your time,… Continue reading

  • Dear April Me,

    We made it through March. March meekness wasn’t just a theme—it was a stretching, a softening, a settling. You leaned in, you asked the hard questions, and you didn’t run from the answers. There was a quiet strength developed in… Continue reading

  • Pruning Season: When Growth Hurts but Heals

    My feelings are hurt today. Not because of anything anyone did to me—but because of what I’m witnessing. My circle… they’re reflecting. They’re becoming self-aware. They’re doing the hard, uncomfortable work of growing. And as we come to the end… Continue reading

  • Pay Attention to Your Body—Grandma Was Right

    When I was a little girl, my mother and my grandmother would always say the same thing: “Pay attention to your body. Pay attention to the cues your body is giving you.” I nodded like a child does—agreeing without understanding.… Continue reading

  • Choosing Grief

    Welcome back, my Growing Woman community. 🫶🏾 I was on a prayer call the other morning, and someone said something that was so simple… but so profound. She said: “We get to choose the way we grieve.” And whew… that… Continue reading

  • Friendly Skies

    I’ve been learning a lot lately. And when I say a lot, I mean I’ve been learning about myself, my circle, and the people who truly support me—especially now that I’m choosing to live more open and more vulnerable. For… Continue reading

  • Pruning season

    Today, I’m not coming to you polished. I’m not coming to you as the “big girl.” I’m not coming as the mature one, the responsible one, the strong one. I’m coming tired. Real tired. I’m tired of always being the… Continue reading

  • Awakening Blog

    Whew. This is tender. And holy. And honest in a way that tells me I’m not romanticizing—I’m awakening. Let me say this plainly to myself: I’m not foolish for wondering. I’m not ungrateful for asking. And I’m not late. What… Continue reading

  • Welcome to the Growing Woman

    Welcome to the Growing Woman Some beginnings are born from celebration.Others are born from collapse.This one began with my life falling apart—and God meeting me right there. Thank you—sincerely—to everyone who has chosen to follow me. Welcome to the Growing… Continue reading

  • When the Countdown Got Loud

    The closer I got to the blog release date, the more emotional and anxious I became. What I thought would feel exciting began to feel heavy. My emotions were everywhere—layered, tangled, unnamed. I didn’t yet have language for what I… Continue reading

“Last year, this day, things were different. Next year, this day, things will have again changed. Where you are today is your latest spot, not the final one.”

—Unknown